"If someone would really just want be inclusive - he could say 'women and trans-men.' But no, we would call women however radical trans activists decide it fancy them (with the help of male politicians of course)."

Ah yes, those gross icky man like Cori Bush, Alexandra Ocasio-Cortez, and Kamala Harris. But seriously, I can't help but notice that your mind jumps to men saying this--despite the fact that most of these terms were coined and are primarily used by women. I agree with you that the needs of cisgender women should be taken into account when crafting new terms, but I disagree with your notion that we have not already done that. Most women are fine with the term, and if a large amount of them object--as has happened before with certain terms--we stop using them.